as an new members to the BDSM community, you may well ask: "Sub is what"?
As an entry point into the letter circle, you must first understand the meaning of Sub. BDSM as a practice has long been wrongly accused by society of being against the law and having strange sexual habits, and in fact, it is filled with various human beauties. BDSM is actually an ancient practice of sexual methods based on concepts like obedience, trust, and power exchange, primarily aimed at bringing joy, pleasure, and a new way of life to its practitioners. The letter circle, which strictly follows the principle of Shared Safety Consented （SSC）、Respectful Communication（Safe）、Aftercare（Satisfaction）、Keep Karma Good（Keep Karmic Good）——the five principles, is a comprehensive family-friendly community, worth your attention.
Submitted means you choose to place yourself in a position of obedience and acceptance within a power exchange relationship. This article will guide you step by step through what Sub is, the characteristics of being a Sub, and what you need to prepare before becoming a Sub, so that you can confidently join this cultural circle.
什么是Submissive？——一个服从者的旅程
Submissive 是服从者的英文简称，指在DOMs&submissive（支配与臣服）关系中，选择听从支配者（Dom）指令、信任对方的一方。简单来说，Sub 就是“听人指使的你”，是一种角色设定，基于双方自愿原则。和M（受虐者）的区别在于：Sub更注重精神层面的臣服与服从，目的是获得当下的心理满足（如被掌控的安心感），而M更侧重肉体刺激（如疼痛或束缚）。
一篇关于Submissive的指南
Submissive作为一个核心角色，在BDSM文化中占据了不可替代的地位，但不要担心，我们用简洁的语言一篇指南来带你认清Sub的本质。
Submissive的特点
服从者一词，英文原文Submissive，可以翻译为“臣服者”或“服从者”，常出现在BDSM文化尤其是字母圈（BDSM社区）中。而在这一文化中，最受追捧、最令人心动的角色之一便是Submissive。Submissive，作为BDSM文化中的重要一员，其特质丰富多样，吸引着不同性格的人加入这一独特领域。
Sub的核心卖点在于“听人指令、交出部分掌控权”，比如交出自己的工作计划、生活安排甚至个人空间，让Dominant来安排一切，并在完成后憋抬鼻、心理写一句：“我以名字起誓，这就是最大的自由享受。” Sub并非懦弱，而是对场景掌控的一种信任，是一种高级形式的安全感。
常见的BDSM词汇有哪些
和M（受虐者）的区别：Sub更看重精神层面的臣服，目的是让Dom满意，自己从中获得价值感；而M更侧重肉体上的痛感或刺激带来的快感。比如，Sub仅仅通过“好好听话”就让自己的存在有了意义，而M则享受“被支配带来的快乐”。两者的结合使得字母圈文化丰富多彩。
Sub/ac - the submissive figure plays multiple roles, including love interest, trusted friend, door-raider, bedwarmer, submissi, scene object, teen lover, and child;}
强烈的服从欲望
Submissive代表的自由度在于它允许心甘情愿放下主张、接受他人安排，从情感上、行动上表达“我为你专属的存在”，这种情绪释放有时甚至超过性满足，SURRINGORIZATION的美感就在于此。
Rantasy, and in different scenes, your dominating might make you do things that you normally would not do, making you feel both honored and special. For example, in the lunch break scene, you might act like a child being praised by your parents or partners; in a meeting consistency, you might take orders without any questioning.
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Submissive是一种生活方式，也是一种自我探索的方式，帮助你更好地了解自己的情感和欲望。所以，如果有兴趣，不妨以prepare your mind, prepare your heart, and prepare for a new journey。
不可或缺的SSC原则
安全、理智、知情同意（SSC）是letter circle的五基本原则之一。无论你是Dom还是Sub，请确保你的行为基于SSC原则进行。
结语
希望这篇文章能够帮助你理解什么是服从者（Sub）。记住，无论何时何地，安全、理智、知情同意永远是第一位的。